So here I am, at the age of 39, living on my own for the first time in 18 years. It feels scary, and at the same time a great feeling of freedom. Now I can play the music I like, go to bed at the time I want to, if the dishes aren’t done – so what!!
Yet the one of the main drawbacks I’ve instantly found is the lack of physical intimacy and more importantly SEX! Being a very sensual woman who needs a lot of sex and physical stimulation, I’ve noticed the lack almost immediately! I’ve been thinking carefully about how I’m going to deal with it. Several choices are fairly obvious, and most of them mean wasting a lot of time and energy, not to mention venturing into places I don’t like all that much.
I’m not the sort who enjoys going to bars or nightclubs (unless it’s to dance the night away). Also the men at those sorts of places tend to be too young or too drunk for a woman like me. Another consideration is that, as much as I LOVE sex, it’s not usually enough for it just to be a physical encounter- I prefer for it to be more than that. I prefer someone who I can connect with, talk to a little, enjoy their company ….before we have wild passionate sex!!
So as an internet savvy person, I’ve realized pretty quickly that the best way for me to fulfill my desires is to look online. So here I go…….
